Abu Dhabi's New Post-Separation Parenting Charter

Why the charter was introduced

The charter responds to a recurring concern in separation and divorce cases: that disputes between parents spill over into a child's daily life and wellbeing. Rather than replacing the Federal Personal Status Law's rules on custody, maintenance and visitation, the charter sits alongside them, translating the principle that children's welfare comes first into a concrete set of expected parental behaviours after separation.

What the charter asks of parents toward their children

• Cooperate on upbringing. Parents are expected to cooperate on their children's moral and religious upbringing, education, healthcare and behavioural guidance.
• Keep each other informed. The custodial parent must share academic reports, health updates and school activities with the other parent.
• Consult on major decisions. Both parents are expected to consult each other on significant matters such as education, medical treatment and travel.
• Protect physical and psychological wellbeing. Each parent is expected to fulfil their parental role and protect the child's health and emotional stability.
• Respect visitation and communication. Each parent must support the other's right to see and communicate with the child, and flag significant matters as they arise.
• Raise children in line with Emirati values. The charter asks parents to instil values consistent with Emirati customs and traditions.

How parents and children are protected from conflict

1. No criticising the other parent. Parents are asked not to disparage each other in front of the children.
2. Keep the dispute away from the children. The reasons for the separation or divorce should not be discussed in the children's presence.
3. No using visitation or support as leverage. Visitation and maintenance are not to be used as bargaining tools or a means of pressuring the other parent.
4. Sign on to a shared framework. A family guidance counsellor presents the charter after separation, and parents can commit to it in full or in part, covering visitation schedules, overnight stays, travel and financial obligations.
5. Try amicable resolution first. Disagreements are expected to be settled between the parents directly before any other step is taken.

What this means in practice

The charter does not replace a court order on custody, visitation or maintenance, and it does not override the Federal Personal Status Law. What it adds is a shared, signed reference point for how separated parents are expected to behave day to day, which a family guidance counsellor can use to guide parents toward agreement and which courts and mediators may draw on if a dispute about parenting conduct, rather than the underlying custody or financial terms, ends up before them.

Common questions

Is the charter legally binding like a court order?

The charter is presented by a family guidance counsellor and parents can sign on to it in full or in part. It works as a shared framework for parental conduct and the practical details of co-parenting, alongside the separate legal rules on custody, visitation and maintenance under the Federal Personal Status Law, rather than replacing a court order.

Does this charter apply outside Abu Dhabi?

It was issued by the Abu Dhabi Judicial Department, so it is specific to separation and divorce matters handled within that emirate. Other emirates operate their own family guidance and reconciliation processes under the Federal Personal Status Law.

What happens if parents can't agree on the charter's terms?

Parents are expected to try to resolve disagreements amicably first. If that doesn't work, the matter is referred to the Family Guidance Centre for reconciliation, and only proceeds to court if that process does not resolve it.

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